Wednesday, 26 March 2014

I Speak On ‘The Ordinary’

             He steadily made his way through the congested roads, staying on one side the whole time, the long cane tapping left and right for guidance. Not once did he flinch or halt, completely confident about his senses leading him to the right path. I watched in complete awe as this blind man maneuvered his way expertly through the crowded traffic. I couldn’t help but gape at him, stunned at his precision and comfort of the streets, despite his disability. People stepped aside quickly, afraid to get in the man’s way. But, the blind man he kept his head up, and kept walking along steadily. Tap, tap, tap…
            I don’t think I’ve ever seen such a sight in my life until I moved to India. The simplest things, which we sometimes tend to overlook are the most important. I’m sure you’ve all heard that before, but yet you still manage to complain about your daily struggles. I know I do, but after seeing this man today I came to a realization, I have so much, yet I’m still not content. This man did not have eyes, but did not show a hint of sorrow, depression, or struggle in the confident way that he walked.             So I thought I’d write about this today…
            Then there are the vendors, who amuse me on a day to day basis. They climb aboard the trains balancing giant baskets of flowers, vegetables, or racks of junk items. The art of balancing is hard enough, yet these people manage to do it while balancing a crying child on their hips! Vendors are spread out all over the city.
            Walking through the bustling Tambaram market, the endless chatter of bargaining rings through my ears. The vegetable vendors toss up their hands in distress, refusing to agree with the persistent customers. They sit cross-legged, their sarees pulled up high for comfort. They adeptly dig out change from their inner blous, while simultaneously calculating and shuffling it over to the customer. Spinach leaves lay scattered, as tomatoes roll out into the messy walkways. But everyone is aware of the scene, and knows exactly where to step as they patrol through the chaos. The entire process is so mesmerizing, as they don’t miss a beat!
            Then, there’s the coffee man strolling through narrow alleyways, methodically pouring chai from one steel glass to the next. He doesn’t spill a drop, and smoothly hands it over to the customer.
            There is a systematic method in the non-systematic environment, which exists in India. As I wait for my college bus, there is this lady who sweeps the ‘sidewalks’ every morning. There is a steady rhythm of the ‘jhadoos’ (brooms) and the strokes hitting the grounds. Keeping her eyes fixated on the ground, she never hesitates nor breaks the rhythm. You are forced to move away from her, as she robotically moves through the sidewalk without averting her eyes from the ground.
            In my eyes, ordinary becomes extraordinary here in India. Every beat, every move, every step is something to take in. Despite the struggles and madness that people in this country have to face on a daily basis, I honestly commend their abilities, as ordinary as they may be.



Wednesday, 12 March 2014

I Speak On ‘Sincerity and Hard Work’

So I was gonna get to this topic later, but today’s incident kinda triggered me into writing a blog post asap! I’ve noticed this one too many times, when people want the shortcut here in India, without much hard work! Everyone wants to be at the front; everyone wants the attention; everyone wants to be the leader. Not necessarily for the work to be done, but just for namesakes. I really don’t want to brag about myself, but I’ll be real and say yes I work hard, and I am a bit of a perfectionist (ok more like a HUGE perfectionist). Unfortunately, my sincerity and dedication backfires on me completely making me the fool. So here is my rant on that:

DISCLAIMER: Don’t take any of these thoughts and opinions personally. This blog is purely to let my feelings out. I just hope you get something out of this.

 A couple weeks ago, I had a question that I needed to ask my teacher, whom I called up. I could’ve gone to my fellow classmates, but they’re not all that helpful at times! So instead, I decided to take the safe route, and clarify my doubts with my teacher. The next day it completely blew up on my face. My teacher yells at ME for not checking up with my classmates on this, saying that apparently I had missed her directions she had given earlier. I tried to justify my actions by stating I just wanted to be sure and ask her. But clearly, calling up the teacher and “disturbing her” was not the right thing to do. I came back home completely stumped.

Then just recently, I tried to take initiative to get a project done with a few other people. This project was due very soon, so being the perfectionist that I am, I decided to get active and encourage my team members to do the same. But oh my god! SO MUCH DRAMA. They all completely reject my suggestions, pushing my ideas to the side. Which is fine by me if you do, but somehow I felt this was all personal by the way that I got attacked for wanting to get some work done. Once again, my efforts to be productive backfired on me, and I’m the bad guy…

So I guess I am overly sincere and hardworking. I’ve always been like that, but I guess in India, you just gotta go with the flow! People screw up, let them. People delay, let them. People shove aside your suggestions, let them (sometimes). I will work harder to ease up a bit, and work the way others do here. But I just wish sometimes, people would get me! Instead of tempers running high, work with me. This clash of culture is so difficult for me, that sometimes I feel like pulling out all my hair. Honestly, there’s not much I can do about other people. So yes, I will work on bettering myself.


But one thing, I want people to take away from this, it doesn’t hurt to appreciate sincerity once in a while. Yes it’s easy to get things done through shortcuts, but the result of hard work can be beautiful. I just wish some people would get that…